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Facebook Fatigue..and misc musings

Filed under: Uncategorized — pharmacychick at 12:55 pm on Monday, February 20, 2012

If they ever coin the above phrase and it goes viral, I hope I get credit for using it first…or at least using it first here.

Having undergone changes after changes, FB is one again making changes that I am less than enamored with: The Time line.  I am waiting until I am forced into the Timeline before I actually DO it because I was ( and am) quite happy with its existing format.  Timeline format is busy to look at while the existing format is streamlined and simple….like me.

Several months ago Pharmacy Chick dumped all the games on Facebook, then subsequently ( but gently) de-friended any of those people whose only reason for friendship was game neighbors.  I prefer to use the term De-friend instead of Unfriend because these people are nice people, but served no purpose on facebook but to play games…some were ” friends of friends” only and I had actually never met them…

Have you ever actually READ the terms you agree to when you play a game on Facebook recently?

This is what you allow when you play a game called Words with Friends…I copied and pasted this for your viewing pleasure. You allow them to:

  • Access my basic information
    Includes name, profile picture, gender, networks, user ID, list of friends, and any other information I’ve made public
  • Send me email
    Words With Friends may email me directly at  ·(removed for my privacy)
  • Post to Facebook as me
    Words With Friends may post status messages, notes, photos, and videos on my behalf.
  • Access my data any time
    Words With Friends may access my data when I’m not using the application.
  • Publish games and app activity
  • Words With Friends may publish scores, achievements, and other activity to Facebook.
REALLY?  I allow them to do all that?  WHY?  I wouldnt even allow MR Chick to post to facebook as ME…, and I am allow some GAME to post on my wall, access all my data, photos, friend list, etc for their own personal entertainment?  But the $64,000 question I have is this:   WHY do they need this access to play what essentially amounts to as ” scrabble”?   They dont need my pictures…my videos…my friend list…but they want it.
I say NO.
Moving on…
I have noticed that I have an ever increasing list of  ” friends” that I should rename “voyeurs”.  I have actually quit accepting friend requests with impunity because as I go thru my list I notice that an increasing list of them are work or customers that have ‘ found’ me on facebook and asked to be my friend.  Truthfully I think all they want to do is to delve into my private life, something they  cannot do while I am at work.  Other than my love of golf and dogs, I don’t share personal information with customers, or other employees.  I never post anything on facebook that is inappropriate or embarrassing but at the same time, its for my FRIENDS and FAMILY, not to foster work relationships.
And, lastly: This election year, by November, I may have half the friends that I have now if some of them dont quit spewing political rhetoric all day..Just saying…
Happy Presidents day…

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    Comment by TECHnically Insane

    February 21, 2012 @ 7:29 am

    I have no problem de-friending. A former co-worker cheated on her husband then used facebook to publically defend, slam, then basically insult every person in the universe. I couldn’t take it. She messed up then she chose to air her dirty laundry.

    I also am very choosy who gets to see what content. Coworkers can only see so much and only select posts.

    Comment by SSS

    February 22, 2012 @ 1:36 pm

    Two thoughts:
    1. You know what really sucks? After you uninstall the games, they still keep your information and use it willy-nilly. Uninstalling does not uninstall your information. Blast.

    2. I also do not care for Timeline, but because I like to give myself the false impression that I’m in control, I changed it yesterday, so that the change wouldn’t be “forced” on me. ::taps head:: Always thinkin’.

    Comment by Chip McCormick

    February 22, 2012 @ 5:37 pm

    Google+ does a good job of avoiding the problems you mentioned. They make it easy to only post to the ‘circle’ you want and from what I hear the games and apps don’t intrude on your privacy (I don’t use them).

    Comment by Steve Daniels

    February 25, 2012 @ 12:34 pm

    I don’t do Facebook. At all.

    Problem solved.

    Comment by class factotum

    February 28, 2012 @ 6:38 am

    This election year, by November, I may have half the friends that I have now if some of them dont quit spewing political rhetoric all day..Just saying…

    My husband and I do not agree politically. To put it mildly. And we live in Wisconsin, which has been having some serious political activity lately. I finally had to block his feed on FB.

    RE: Google and privacy: Google is even worse about privacy than FB! I have stopped using gmail and google because I am so ticked at their new “we’re consolidating all your info/searches/contents of your emails! to make life better for you!” announcement.

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